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Kate Middleton grew up a 'commoner' and married into the royal family in April 2011 when she and Prince William tied the knot in Westminster Abbey in London. Upon marrying, Prince William and Kate's titles became 'His and Her Royal Highness, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge,' with 'Kate' formally going by 'Catherine.' Interestingly, Southern Living reports, she has two other titles depending on where she is within the United Kingdom: When Duchess Kate is in Scotland, she's referred to as Countess of Strathearn; when she visits Northern Ireland her title is — wait for it — Lady Carrickfergus. Really. Additionally, because Kate married into royalty instead of being born into it like William, her title will always come after her name, i.e., 'Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge' as opposed to 'Duchess Catherine.'
The royal line of succession is clearly defined: After Queen Elizabeth II retires from royal life, Prince Charles will become King. Prince William is next in line (followed by his and Kate's sons, then Prince Harry). When Prince William becomes King, however, what does it all mean for Kate Middleton?
Once Wills ascends to the throne, that doesn't mean Kate will automatically become Queen. Her official title will be, according to The Independent, 'Queen Consort;' Good Housekeeping reports that her full title in its entirety will be 'Her Royal Majesty Queen Consort Catherine VI.' This 'Consort' designation is given to the wife of a ruling male sovereign, as opposed to a woman born into royalty. As with many Draconian royal traditions, this does not usually apply to men who marry sovereign female monarchs (like Queen Elizabeth II, who is technically a 'Queen Regnant'), as their titles usually remain the same (as Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh's did). The single exception was when Prince Albert was named Prince Consort in 1857 after Queen Victoria had reigned for two decades. If Kate outlives William, she may also be eligible for the title of 'Her Majesty, Queen Catherine, the Queen Mother.'
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Before Prince William and Kate become King and Queen consort, however, Good Housekeeping reports that Prince Charles will likely bestow his title onto William, making William the new Prince of Wales; Kate would likely then become Catherine, Princess of Wales — though she may decline the title, much like Duchess Camilla of Cornwall, chooses to do out of respect for the late Princess Diana. Royal expert Robert Jobson explained to The Daily Star, 'If William is given the title by his dad when Charles is king, Kate will be Princess of Wales ... simple as that. The reason Camilla didn't take the title is exceptional, she was Charles' mistress. Camilla chose to use one of Charles' other titles hence she is '[Her Royal Highness] The Duchess of Cornwall' in England and Wales. Should Camilla want to be styled '[Her Royal Highness] The Princess of Wales,' she could be.'
In terms of Kate's title, nothing will really change in terms of her royal duties. Southern Living reports that her workload, such as it is, will remain much the same: She'll be a patron for charities of her and William's choosing, make public appearances, and support William in his own endeavors. One of Kate's jobs, bestowed upon her by the current Queen herself, is patron of the Royal Photographic Society, which was announced in June 2019. Queen Elizabeth II held the role, which promotes the 'art and science of photography,' for 67 years before passing the baton to her granddaughter-in-law. The Duchess of Cambridge (and soon to be Queen Consort) places a special focus on charities for early childhood education and mental health, as well as athletics and outdoor activities for kids.
Jobson explained that literally no matter what poor Kate does, her title is entirely dependent on her husband William and father-in-law Prince Charles' actions, noting that William will only become Prince of Wales if Charles bestows the title upon him. 'There is nothing automatic about it. Just 21 men have held that coveted rank in history. Charles is the latest having been made it at 10. The title 'Prince of Wales' is one of the great continuities of English and Welsh and, latterly, British, history.' He added that the title is 'not heritable' and is seen as a 'great honor.'
Despite all of that, chances are Kate will be known as 'Kate Middleton,' especially stateside, for a very long time. Boston University professor Arianne Chernock explained to Vanity Fair, 'It doesn't hurt her that the American press especially refers to her as Kate Middleton. It's precisely her middle-class origins, and that name, which won her over to so many people in the first place. So that reminder can only help her.'
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Featuring royals like Princess Margaret, Netflix's The Crown goes through great lengths to make the show as historically accurate as possible, despite being considered fictional. That's not to say liberties are never taken, of course. Members of the royal family live extraordinarily private lives, and, as such, there are just some things we're never going to really know about them. 'There's an interesting balance to be struck between trying to be truthful and authoritative and not being too syrupy,' Matt Smith, the actor who stars as Prince Philip in Seasons 1 and 2, told Forbes. 'This is the reason that [the royal family has] endured — they've never allowed us behind the palace walls.'
If you're a fan of the series, you've already met Princess Margaret, Queen Elizabeth II's younger sister and only sibling, played by Vanessa Kirby in the first and second seasons and Helena Bonham Carter in Seasons 3 and 4, which are set during a dramatic time in the princess' life. While The Crown has delivered a mostly accurate portrayal of Margaret's life, her real-life story is well worth knowing. This is the tragic true tale of Princess Margaret.
Princess Margaret was made out to be 'wicked as hell'
Being the kid sister to the eventual queen was not without its challenges. 'When my sister and I were growing up, she was made out to be the goody-goody one,' The Queen, a 1996 biography of Queen Elizabeth II, quotes Princess Margaret as saying (via PBS' Frontline). 'That was boring, so the press tried to make out I was wicked as hell.'
Although Margaret obviously did not agree with that assessment of her character, it's true that she and her sister were opposites. 'The queen, even when they were girls, always kept an eye on her sister because Margaret could be wayward. She could be cheeky. She could be naughty,' Christopher Warwick, author of the authorized biography Princess Margaret: A Life of Contrasts, revealed to The Cut. 'In terms of personalities, Elizabeth and Margaret were as different as chalk and cheese.'
Princess Margaret was disliked at a young age
Princess Margaret was beloved by her father, King George VI. 'He used to look at her as if he couldn't believe this enchanting thing was his daughter,' a courtier told The Telegraph. The daughter of one of the late king's courtiers added, 'The King spoiled her dreadfully. She was his pet ... she was always allowed to stay up to dinner at the age of 13 and to grow up too quickly.' But her father was one of the only ones smitten by her.
'The courtiers didn't like her much — they found her amusing but ... she used to keep her parents and everyone waiting for dinner because she wanted to listen to the end of a programme on the wireless,' the courtier's daughter revealed. 'I remember my father despairing of her.'
Even Margaret and Princess Elizabeth II's governess, Marion Crawford, thought the young princess crowded out her older sister. 'We really are trying to separate them a bit because Princess Margaret does draw all the attention and Elizabeth lets her do that,' she's quoted as saying. Crawford even requested Margaret be excluded from parties so Elizabeth could attend without her.
Princess Margaret lost 'the love of her life' in her 20s
King George VI was known to refer to his two daughters, Princess Elizabeth II and Princess Margaret, as 'pride' and 'joy,' respectively (via Express). And, just as King George VI loved his girls, they, too, loved him. Margaret was especially close to the king.
Christopher Warwick, the author of the princess' authorized biography, Princess Margaret: A Life of Contrasts, told The Cut, 'The love of her life was one man, and he was the man who died before she was 22, and that man was her father, the king, whom she adored.'
On Feb. 6, 1952, King George died suddenly at the age of 56. According to his biography, his death was later determined to be caused by a coronary thrombosis. Some time before, the king had been diagnosed with lung cancer and had one of his lungs removed. King George is thought to have passed away in his sleep in the early morning hours. The night before, he spent time playing with his grandchildren, Charles and Anne, and dining with his beloved daughter Margaret.
Princess Margaret's doomed relationship
Princess Margaret began a secret relationship with Group Captain Peter Townsend in the early '50s. Townsend was married, but later divorced his wife and proposed to the princess. Margaret said yes, but they continued to keep their romance quiet.
'At the time,' History explained, 'divorce was considered a major scandal, and it was unthinkable for a royal to marry both a commoner and a divorced man.' If Margaret were to marry a divorcee, it could appear as if Queen Elizabeth condoned divorce — something that was very much disapproved of by the Church of England.
But, with their plan to marry, the couple couldn't keep it a secret forever. Due to the Royal Marriages Act of 1772, Margaret would need to seek the queen's permission to marry. If Queen Elizabeth II denied her request, Margaret could then petition Parliament after one year's time, but, as History highlighted, 'that would have caused a scandal even more dramatic than her affair with a divorced man.' In the end, Margaret and Townsend broke up. The princess issued a statement saying she'd 'resolved' to put 'the Church's teachings' about marriage and her 'duty to the Commonwealth' above all else.
Princess Margaret planned to settle for someone else
In letters discovered decades later, Princess Margaret revealed to then-prime minister Anthony Eden in 1955 that she planned to meet with Peter Townsend in order to 'properly decide' whether she could or could not marry him. 'The Queen of course knows I am writing to you about this, but of course no one else does, and as everything is so uncertain I know you will regard it certainly as a confidence,' she revealed in one letter cited by The Telegraph.
Although Margaret may have seemed like she was pushed into breaking off her engagement with Townsend, these letters prove that Margaret made the final decision. The princess' authorized biographer, Christopher Warwick, confirmed to The Cutthat 'Peter Townsend was not the great love of her life.' Still, ending the relationship couldn't have been easy — especially after the entire world knew of her and Townsend's affair.
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A year after issuing a statement about ending her relationship with Townsend, Margaret accepted a marriage proposal from her friend Billy Wallace. According to The Telegraph, Margaret reasoned to her pals that it was better to marry 'somebody one at least liked' than remain unmarried.
Princess Margaret found love and controversy yet again
Despite Princess Margaret's decision to settle for Billy Wallace, the two did not marry. According to The Telegraph, the couple never made a formal engagement announcement because their relationship ended soon after they'd gotten engaged. Wallace apparently admitted to Margaret that he'd had a brief affair while vacationing in the Bahamas. 'I had my chance and blew it with my big mouth, or she would have become Mrs. Wallace and I would have been able to handle her,' he is quoted as saying.
Two years later, Margaret met photographer Antony Armstrong-Jones at a dinner party. Later, Armstrong-Jones was hired to photograph Margaret — and their romance began. 'Nobody knew about their relationship, there wasn't a whisper about it,' Anne de Courcy, author of Snowdon: The Biography, told Town & Country. It was as if they were hiding in plain sight. Because Armstrong-Jones was not seen as a suitable match for the princess, the press didn't think much of him attending parties with Margaret. When the couple announced their engagement in 1960, royal courtiers were both shocked and displeased. They thought Margaret should've married someone of her own class — not a 'commoner.'
Princess Margaret's marriage started to fall apart within a few years
On May 6, 1960, Princess Margaret and Antony Armstrong-Jones, who then became known as Lord Snowden, married. But, unfortunately, the princess didn't get her happily ever after.
'The first few years were wonderful,' Anne de Courcy, author of Snowden: A Biography, confirmed to Town & Country. 'They had a lot in common, there was banter between them — he would help her with her speeches.' The couple was perhaps too similar in some ways. 'They were both pretty strong-willed and accustomed to having their own way, so there were bound to be collisions,' de Courcy explained. And then work started to get in the way.
In 1962, Margaret's husband took a job as the artistic advisor for The Sunday Times. 'She expected her husband to be with her more, but one of Tony's strongest motivations was work,' the author revealed. 'He had a workshop in the basement of Kensington Palace, and while she was understanding of his work commitments, Margaret didn't realize it would take him away from her so much.'
Princess Margaret's affair was made public in the tabloids
In 1961, before their relationship took a turn for the worse, Antony Armstrong-Jones and Princess Margaret welcomed their first child, David. Soon after their second child, Sarah, was born in 1964, though, their relationship began faltering. According to The Evening Standard, Margaret caught her husband talking on the phone to a woman, and it was clear that they were more than just friends. It seems, while Armstrong-Jones was away for work, he was also involved in a series of flings with other women.
'The flings used to upset her a lot,' Anne de Courcy, author of Snowden: A Biography, revealed to Town & Country. But Lord Snowden wasn't the only one cheating. 'She had some too,' de Courcy confirmed, 'but never as long as his. They weren't revenge affairs, she just wanted to feel desired.'
Both Armstrong-Jones and Margaret continued to have their separate affairs into the '70s, but they were able to keep their liaisons from the press. That is, until Margaret and her lover, landscape gardener Roddy Llewellyn, were photographed vacationing together in the Caribbean, and, before long, their images were plastered on the covers of tabloids.
Some people wanted to strip Princess Margaret of her title
Soon after Princess Margaret's affair with Roddy Llewellyn was made public, Antony Armstrong-Jones and the princess announced their separation. Some years later, in 1978, the couple revealed that they would be divorcing. 'The marriage has broken down and the couple have lived apart for two years. These are obviously the grounds for divorce,' the princess' spokesman told The New York Times. 'Naturally, Princess Margaret and Lord Snowdon will continue to see each other on the same friendly basis as they have with each other over the last two years.'
When news of her affair broke, a Member of Parliament dubbed Margaret a 'parasite,' while another labeled the princess 'an embarrassment to the whole nation.' And that's just the kinds of things they said about her before she filed for divorce. After the divorce announcement was made public, John Lee, a Labor Party legislator, said he planned to question Parliament about Margaret's titles and funds. 'That is a polite way of saying that Mr. Lee will demand a cut in her salary, which is paid by Parliament, and possibly a change in her royal position,' The New York Times noted.
Princess Margaret lived her entire life in her sister's shadow
Princess Margaret did not lose her royal title after divorcing Antony Armstrong-Jones, but she did lose — and miss out on — a lot of other things throughout her life. 'When you look at Princess Margaret, she never found the happiness she should have done,' royal expert Ingrid Seward told Express. 'She was always completely in the shadow of her elder sister, because her elder sister was Queen. And Princess Anne said she used to feel like an also-ran.' That is, a loser.
Andrew Duncan, the author of The Reality of Monarchy, told the publication what Margaret once told him: 'In my own humble way I've always tried to take some of the burden off my sister.' We may never know for sure, but you can't help but wonder if Margaret's ability to draw attention as a child was purposeful, a way to provide some relief to her older sister. Although she loved her big sis dearly, Margaret also felt that she could never quite compare to the queen. 'I guess I'll be second best to my grave,' a confidante of Margaret quoted her as saying.
Princess Margaret's painful accident
In the late '90s, it was reported that Princess Margaret suffered a terrible accident, leading her to be bedridden and under constant medical care. After such reports surfaced, BBC royal correspondent Nicholas Witchell noted the press had exaggerated the extent of the situation, but a painful mishap did indeed take place.
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'Princess Margaret scalded her feet in an accident on holiday in Mustique a few weeks ago,' a Buckingham Palace spokesman further revealed to BBC News. Christopher Warwick, the princess' authorized biographer, told The Telegraph that she'd been attempting to take a shower but had accidentally started a bath. Although there was a water thermostat, it was apparently not working properly. And, because Margaret suffered from Raynaud's disease, a blood vessel disorder, it's thought she did not notice how hot the water was until it was too late.
Following the accident, the spokesman revealed to BBC News that Margaret was seen by a doctor before traveling back to London a week later. 'She is now recuperating at Windsor,' he said at the time, 'but these things do take some time to heal.' Two months later, she was thought to still be recovering from her injuries.
Princess Margaret suffered with poor health for many years
Princess Margaret's life was not only marred by tragedy, but also by poor mental and physical health. As her marriage was collapsing in the '70s, Margaret was reported to have suffered a nervous breakdown. Margaret was also a heavy drinker, which led to her developing hepatitis in the mid '80s. In addition to drinking heavily, Margaret was a chain smoker. According to The Guardian, Margaret began smoking cigarettes as a teenager. After her father passed away, Margaret began to smoke even more — having as many as 60 cigarettes a day.
By the early aughts, Margaret had suffered a cancer scare, repeated migraines, the aforementioned hepatitis, bronchitis, laryngitis, pneumonia, and several strokes. In 2002, after developing heart complications from a fourth stroke at the age of 71, Margaret died 'peacefully in her sleep,' Buckingham Palace revealed (via Time). Margaret's funeral was held on the 50th anniversary of her father's death and at the same location, St. George's Chapel in Windsor.
Despite enduring many tragedies, Princess Margaret was 'a lady who loved life'
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You can't comb through Princess Margaret's life and ignore all of the ways in which it was affected by tragedies, but that doesn't mean Margaret's life was all dark, all the time. Although Christopher Warwick, her authorized biographer, did confirm that Margaret ended up alone in the end, there is more to her story than just her failed relationships and heartbreak.
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'It's sad,' Warwick told The Cut, 'but the idea that she was a sad woman simply is not true. There were times when she was very, very lonely. But my goodness, she was a lady who loved life and enjoyed friends. We've all gone through sad and unhappy times in our life and she was no different.' Warwick claimed that she was not 'at all' this 'sad [or] tragic character.' Despite enduring all of her many tragedies, she did not give them the power to define her.